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This is what rituals are for. We do spiritual ceremonies as human beings in order to create a safe resting place for our most complicated feelings of joy or trauma, so that we don't have to haul those feelings around with us forever, weighing us down.

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Elizabeth Gilbert
Age: 55
Born: 1969
Born: July 18
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