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I slept peacefully that night, feeling exultant and determined. Little did I know that I was making the most common and the most painful mistake women have made all throughout the ages: to naively think that with their love they can change the man they love.

Elif Safak

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Elif Safak
Age: 53
Born: 1971
Born: October 25
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Straßburg
Elif Shafak
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