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A person could leave you so quickly. So much history and time and memories, but they snuck away from you, and other things took their place. How could you hold on? Wait. A bigger question. The biggest. How could you hold on and let go?

Deb Caletti

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Deb Caletti
Age: 61
Born: 1963
Born: June 16
Novelist
Writer
San Rafael
California
Away
Bigger
Place
Took
Persons
Hold
Person
Leave
Much
Memories
Snuck
Things
Question
Quickly
Time
Waiting
Biggest
History
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