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Love can come when you're already who you are, when you're filled with you. Not when you look to someone else to fill the empty space.

Deb Caletti

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Deb Caletti
Age: 61
Born: 1963
Born: June 16
Novelist
Writer
San Rafael
California
Looks
Filled
Love
Empty
Already
Space
Else
Someone
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Come
Fill

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A lady I will be, but a man's accessory, his handbag, no thank you. I will not be someone's ornament. I will not just be someone's honey, baby, sweetheart.
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Yeah. When you want what's real and you try to find that in high school, you might as well be looking for a mossy rock beside a babbling brook on the corner of Sixth and Pine in downtown Seattle.
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But an apology too — you think you’re giving something, but you’re not. You’re really asking for something. You’re asking for forgiveness, you’re asking for the other injured person to make it okay for you. Apologies were harder work for the person getting one than the person giving one.
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But my apology was a thousand apologies.
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You could put your confusion and upset and worries into whatever book you were reading. You could sort of set them down in there, and you could come out with your head on a little straighter. I don't why stories worked that way, but they did.
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I shouldn't have to be a liar to make someone love me. I shouldn't be so afraid of losing someone that I'll do anything to make them stay.
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Most of our parents wanted the best for us, I knew, but we also wanted the best for them.
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I was like a chocolate in a box, looking well behaved and perfect in place, all the while harboring a secret center.
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... But then again, a person could turn ugly. Their actual look could change when their actions were repulsive.
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You can want one thing and have a secret wish for its opposite.
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I was a book lover from the beginning. I loved, love, words and images and ideas, the ways a book can make you feel things deeply or help you understand something you never even knew there were words for.
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Hope could be the most powerful thing or the most useless.
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You were a stone wall, a fort in high, unreachable trees, an island, my own island, that no boat could reach.
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