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Love can come when you're already who you are, when you're filled with you. Not when you look to someone else to fill the empty space.

Deb Caletti

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Deb Caletti
Age: 61
Born: 1963
Born: June 16
Novelist
Writer
San Rafael
California
Look
Come
Fill
Looks
Filled
Love
Empty
Already
Space
Else
Someone

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