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Chronic dissatisfaction is how you sense that you are living a lie.

David Deida

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David Deida
Age: 66
Born: 1958
Born: March 18
Author
Non-Fiction Writer
Cleveland
Ohio
Living
Sense
Chronic
Dissatisfaction
Lying

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