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If you are waiting for anything in order to live and love without holding back, then you suffer.

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David Deida
Age: 66
Born: 1958
Born: March 18
Author
Non-Fiction Writer
Cleveland
Ohio
Without
Holding
Love
Suffer
Waiting
Suffering
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Anything
Back
Live

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