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Assert your right to make a few mistakes. If people can't accept your imperfections, that's their fault.

David D. Burns

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David D. Burns
Age: 82
Born: 1942
Born: September 19
Author
Psychiatrist
People
Mistakes
Perfection
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Imperfections
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Confronting your fears and allowing yourself the right to be human can, paradoxically, make you a far happier and more productive person.
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Apologies do make a difference. Believe it or not, research shows people often prefer them over money.
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Learn to accept your limits and you'll become a happier person.
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The best way to confront your fears it to stop avoiding the situation you're most afraid of.
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Practically everybody knows what its like to feel anxious, worried, nervous, afraid, uptight, or panicky. Often, anxiety is just a nuisance, but sometimes it can cripple you and prevent you from doing what you really want with your life. But I have some great news for you: You can change the way you feel.
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Depression has been called the worlds number one public health problem. In fact, depression is so widespread it is considered the common cold of psychiatric disturbances. But there is a grim difference between depression and a cold. Depression can kill you.
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Perfectionism becomes a badge of honor with you playing the part of the suffering hero.
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Kindness is the cause of all anxiety.
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Cognitive therapy is based on the idea that when you change the way you think, you can change the way you feel and behave. In other words, if we can learn to think about other people in a more positive and realistic way, it will be far easier to resolve conflicts and develop rewarding personal and professional relationships.
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You're not a bad person. But you sometimes do bad things. You know what that makes you? Human.
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Guilt doesn't help. What should fill in for it? Remorse. Remorse is when you feel bad about what you did. Guilt is when you feel bad about who you are.
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