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We all make mistakes, don't we? But if you can't forgive yourself, you'll always be an exile in your own life.

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Curtis Sittenfeld
Age: 49
Born: 1975
Born: August 23
Author
Novelist
Teacher
Writer
Cincinnati
Ohio
Elizabeth Curtis Sittenfeld
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I wanted to hold happiness in reserve, like a bottle of champagne. I postponed it because I was afraid, because I overvalued it, and then I didn't want to use it up, because what do you wish for then?
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She has always been a bystander in family destruction, never realizing she herself possessed the capacity to inflict it.
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We have to make mistakes, its how we learn compassion for others
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