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And I am pretty sure that's the point of reading fiction -- so someone else can say in a way you never would have something you recognize immediately.

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Curtis Sittenfeld
Age: 49
Born: 1975
Born: August 23
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Cincinnati
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Elizabeth Curtis Sittenfeld
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