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When women are relegated to moods, mannerisms, and contours that conform to a single ideal of beauty and behavior, they are captured in both body and soul, and are no longer free.

Clarissa Pinkola Estes

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Clarissa Pinkola Estes
Age: 79
Born: 1945
Born: January 27
Poet
Psychologist
Writer
Indiana
United States
Clarissa Pinkola Estes
Free
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Women
Ideal
Body
Mood
Contours
Soul
Ideals
Relegated
Behavior
Mannerisms
Longer
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Single
Beauty
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