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Before you speak, my friend, remember, a spiritual man contain his anger. Angry words are like slap in de face.

Chris Abani

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Chris Abani
Age: 57
Born: 1966
Born: December 27
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I didn't leave Africa, I left Nigeria, and for political reasons. But ... I've never, never left Africa, and I certainly never left what it means to be Ibo. That is something you carry with you.
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