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Being so alone and so silent for so long gave me the opportunity to see how our brains actually work. I think of that so often in my regular life, as I'm always interacting with people or with my computer or phone.
Cheryl Strayed
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Cheryl Strayed
Age: 56
Born: 1968
Born: September 17
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