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When going on a date with someone they met online, the number-one fear that straight women have is going on a date with a serial killer. The number-one fear straight men have is going on a date with a fat woman. That says everything.
Cheryl Strayed
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Cheryl Strayed
Age: 56
Born: 1968
Born: September 17
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