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No' is golden. 'No' is the kind of power the good witch wields. It's the way whole, healthy, emotionally evolved people manage to have relationships with jackasses while limiting the amount of jackass in their lives.

Cheryl Strayed

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Cheryl Strayed
Age: 56
Born: 1968
Born: September 17
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I'd walk and think about my entire life. I'd find my strength again, far from everything that had made my life ridiculous.
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So release yourself from that. Don't be strategic or coy. Strategic and coy are for jackasses. Be brave. Be authentic. Practice saying the word 'love' to the people you love so when it matters the most to say it, you will.
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