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As social beings we live with our eyes upon our reflection, but have no assurance of the tranquillity of the waters in which we see it.

Charles Horton Cooley

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Charles Horton Cooley
Age: 64 †
Born: 1864
Born: August 17
Died: 1929
Died: May 27
Economist
Sociologist
Ann Arbor
Michigan
Charles Horton Cooley
Eyes
Upon
Tranquillity
Eye
Tranquility
Water
Assurance
Social
Waters
Live
Reflection
Beings
Quiet

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