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We're so quick to cut away pieces of ourselves to suit a particular relationship, a job, a circle of friends, incessantly editing who we are until we fit in.

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Charles de Lint
Age: 73
Born: 1951
Born: December 22
Musician
Novelist
Poet
Writer
Samuel M. Key
Cutting
Incessantly
Pieces
Editing
Relationship
Suit
Particular
Circle
Friends
Quick
Jobs
Suits
Away
Circles
Fit

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The road leading to a goal does not separate you from the destination it is essentially a part of it.
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It's not all about getting your own way. Sometimes there's a bigger picture.
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Every time we fix something that broken, whether it's a car engine or a broken heart, that an act of magic. And what makes it magic is that we choose to create or help, just as we can choose to harm.
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Don't forget - no one else sees the world the way you do, so no one else can tell the stories that you have to tell.
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