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I think a person who arranges the event and orders the food also picks up the check - even the birthday person, even when people at the table insist on paying for the birthday person.

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Carolyn Hax
Age: 58
Born: 1966
Born: December 5
Columnist
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Bridgeport
Connecticut
Carolyn Hanley Hax
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