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Your failures and misfortunes don't threaten other people. . .It's your assets and your successes that are problems for people who derive their self-esteem from being superior.

Carol S. Dweck

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Carol S. Dweck
Age: 78
Born: 1946
Born: October 17
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Choosing a partner is choosing a set of problems. There are no problem-free candidates.
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If parents want to give their children a gift, the best thing they can do is to teach their children to love challenges, be intrigued by mistakes, enjoy effort, and keep on learning. That way, their children don’t have to be slaves of praise. They will have a lifelong way to build and repair their own confidence.
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Becoming is better than being
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Wow, that's a really good score. You must have worked really hard.
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So what should we say when children complete a task—say, math problems—quickly and perfectly? Should we deny them the praise they have earned? Yes. When this happens, I say, “Whoops. I guess that was too easy. I apologize for wasting your time. Let’s do something you can really learn from!
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Just because some people can do something with little or no training, it doesn't mean that others can't do it (and sometimes do it even better) with training.
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What can I learn from this? What will I do next time I'm in this situation?
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What did you learn today? What mistake did you make that taught you something? What did you try hard at today?
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...when people already know they're deficient, they have nothing to lose by trying.
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This is hard. This is fun.
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The passion for stretching yourself and sticking to it, even (or especially) when it's not going well, is the hallmark of the growth mindset.
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You’re in charge of your mind. You can help it grow by using it in the right way.
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Vowing, even intense vowing, is often useless. The next day comes and the next day goes. What works is making a vivid, concrete plan.
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No matter what your current ability is, effort is what ignites that ability and turns it into accomplishment.
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Picture your brain forming new connections as you meet the challenge and learn. Keep on going.
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For twenty years, my research has shown that the view you adopt for yourself profoundly affects the way you lead your life. It can determine whether you become the person you want to be and whether you accomplish the things you value.
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Why seek out the tried and true, instead of experiences that will stretch you?
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