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Whatever I wrote was heretical. It offended the editors of the women's magazines.
Betty Friedan
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Betty Friedan
Age: 85 †
Born: 1921
Born: February 4
Died: 2006
Died: February 6
Feminist
Journalist
Psychologist
Sociologist
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Peoria
Illinois
Betty Naomi Goldstein
Bettye Naomi Goldstein
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Advice? I don't offer advice. Not my business. Your life is what you make it.
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