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Aging will create the music of the coming century.

Betty Friedan

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Betty Friedan
Age: 85 †
Born: 1921
Born: February 4
Died: 2006
Died: February 6
Feminist
Journalist
Psychologist
Sociologist
Writer
Peoria
Illinois
Betty Naomi Goldstein
Bettye Naomi Goldstein
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The feminist revolution had to be fought because women quite simply were stopped at a state of evolution far short of their human capacity.
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You have to say no to the old ways before you can begin to find the new yes you need.
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Aging is not lost youth but a new stage of opportunity and strength.
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