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I used to think masturbation was not really sex because it only involved me. That's a very limited view of human sexuality, and it isn't going to work for women.

Betty Dodson

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Betty Dodson
Age: 91 †
Born: 1929
Born: August 24
Died: 2020
Died: October 31
Printmaker
Sex Educator
Visual Artist
Writer
Wichita
Kansas
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Sexuality
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