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When I look for happiness, I lose it. When I stop looking, and surrender to where I am, I find it.

Barbara De Angelis

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Barbara De Angelis
Age: 73
Born: 1951
Born: March 4
Author
Psychologist
Writer
Happiness
Find
Look
Looks
Surrender
Lose
Loses
Stop
Looking

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Temporary feelings of regret are a normal part of the mourning process. This helps us retrieve our lost dreams. If we hold on to regret, we risk trapping ourselves in a prison of unrealized dreams from which it is difficult to escape.
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All relationships are your mirrors and all people are your teachers.
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You never lose by loving. You always lose by holding back. The heart will break... but broken live on.
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Happiness is not an acquisition - it is a skill. We do not experience happiness because of what we get. We experience happiness because of how we live each moment.
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Living with integrity means... behaving in ways that are in harmony with your personal values.
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It is inherent in human consciousness to improve. So there is nothing unique about a people searching for and creating ways to make their life better - all civilizations throughout history have done this. What is unique about us in America is the accelerated rate at which we continually search for novelty and progress.
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I have experienced a lifetime of real moments, and many of them were happy moments.
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Men are just as sensitive, and in some ways more sensitive, than women are.
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May all that is not love within us and without be healed. May all that is love within us and without us be revealed. May every day of our lives be lived in love.
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Men aren't the way they are because they want to drive women crazy they've been trained to be that way for thousands of years. And that training makes it very difficult for men to be intimate.
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No one betrays us as much in our lives as we betray ourselves.
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To succeed, you have to do something and be very bad at it for a while. You have to look bad before you can look really good.
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I just want to get a Ph.D. in love.
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The real act of marriage takes place in the heart, not in the ballroom or church or synagogue. It's a choice you make on your wedding day, and over and over again and that choice is reflected in the way you treat your husband.
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It is easy to be mindless in America, because dreaming of and living for a better tomorrow is the American way. ... The problem is, in the second half of the twentieth century, we have gotten so good at living for tomorrow that most of us spend very little time in the present.
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