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Every time a child organizes and completes a chore, spends some time alone without feeling lonely, loses herself in play for an hour, or refuses to go along with her peers in some activity she feels is wrong, she will be building meaning and a sense of worth for herself and harmony in her family.

Barbara Coloroso

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Barbara Coloroso
Age: 91 †
Born: 1910
Born: October 6
Died: 2002
Died: May 3
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