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You only change what you understand. What you do not understand and are not aware of, you repress. You dont change. But when you understand it, it changes.
Anthony de Mello
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Anthony de Mello
Age: 55 †
Born: 1931
Born: September 4
Died: 1987
Died: June 2
Philosopher
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Bombay
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As you identify less and less with the “me”, you will be more at ease with everybody and with everything. Do you know why? Because you are no longer afraid of being hurt or not liked. You no longer desire to impress anyone. Can you imagine the relief when you don't have to impress anybody anymore? Oh, what a relief. Happiness at last!
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Every word, every image used for God is a distortion more than a description.
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Silence is not the absence of sound, but the absence of self.
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What is love? The total absence of fear, said the Master What is it we fear? Love, said the Master.
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The day you are happy for no reason whatsoever, the day you find yourself taking delight in everything and in nothing, you will know that you have found the land of unending joy called the kingdom.
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Spirituality practiced in the state of activity is incomparably superior to that practiced in a state of withdrawel.
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When you fight something, you're tied to it forever. As long as you're fighting it, you’re giving it power.
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Think of a flabby person covered with layers of fat. That is what your mind can become - flabby, covered with layers of fat till it becomes too dull and lazy to think, to observe, to explore, to discover ... not wanting to be disturbed or questioned into wakefulness.
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Wisdom tends to grow in proportion to one's awareness of one's ignorance.
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You don't have to add anything in order to be happy you've got to drop something.
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Those who make no mistakes are making the biggest mistakes of all - they are attempting nothing new.
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Name one practical, down-to-earth effect of spirituality, said the skeptic who was ready for an argument. Here's one, said the Master. When someone offends you, you can raise your spirits to heights where offenses cannot reach.
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