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When you cling, life is destroyed when you hold on to anything, you cease to live.

Anthony de Mello

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Anthony de Mello
Age: 55 †
Born: 1931
Born: September 4
Died: 1987
Died: June 2
Philosopher
Priest
Psychologist
Theologian
Writer
Bombay
Hold
Anything
Live
Life
Cling
Cease
Destroyed

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