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One of the things about parents and children is that there is no way that you go through this without there being mutual anger.
Anne Roiphe
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Anne Roiphe
Age: 88
Born: 1935
Born: December 25
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A woman whose smile is open and whose expression is glad has a kind of beauty no matter what she wears.
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Self-pity is never useful. It tends to distort like a fun-house mirror.
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Romanticizing the act of writing or any other art is not very helpful to the artist or the art. It's much better if one simply does.
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God is a God of Lovingkindness.
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Reader, you forget that economics precedes religion worship grew out of eating, not the other way around.
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I don't really think it comes as a shock to every writer if somebody in their family is mad at them. Yes, it's very upsetting. But it's inherent in the process of trying to make sense of one's life, which is what I think is perhaps at the bottom of writing at all.
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I really consider myself a writer, and a writer who is sometimes a social critic. I'm not an ideologue, I don't join a party. I follow along and take notes. Sometimes I throw in my two cents.
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