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I have two writer daughters, and a psychoanalyst daughter, and a lawyer daughter, and they wish we didn't write, I'm sure, but we write. If we were a painting family, we would paint.

Anne Roiphe

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Anne Roiphe
Age: 88
Born: 1935
Born: December 25
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New York City
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I believe that it is our human right to be parents and women. And there's no contradiction between feminism, which means women should have all that they are entitled to, all that they can do, all the opportunities that they can take advantage of they should have.
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It is hard to hold on to friendships when people move away to another state or to another world.
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A person who has no secrets is a liar. We always fold ourselves away from others just enough to preserve a secret or two, something that we cannot share without destroying our inner landscape.
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You really can't say things that upset someone in print and expect them to be nice and leave you their money. That's just not reasonable.
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We also have to make sure our children know the history of women. Tell them the rotten truth: It wasn't always possible for women to become doctors or managers or insurance people. Let them be armed with a true picture of the way we want it to be.
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You have to have a certain kind of thickening of the hide. I mean, I'm not particularly worried about what other people think. If other people think that I was not the world's most perfect mother, they are completely right.
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What other people think of me is not really my major concern in life. What other people think of what I write is another matter.
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It's true, we tend to write about the same thing over and over again because this is our trauma. If I had been in World War II, I might have been writing about D-Day over and over again.
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I have always been fascinated by the human mind, conscious and unconscious - that is what writing and reading is about, too. The why of your life and the why of your choices and the what has happened that you know and the what that you don't know is really riveting, and psychoanalysts share my wonder at how it all unfolds.
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I would prefer you not to say, That was the most terribly written piece I've ever read. That would hurt me. But you don't think I'm the best person in the world? Well, alright.
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I think it is a good thing to have woman friends at every stage of life. We confide in each other, we support each other, we understand each other most of the time. Of course, sometimes we are competitive or angry or distant, too. But I do think it is important not to let the main friendships slip away in the sweep of the days.
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People always tell me either A. you love him. B. you hate him. My usual answer? C. All of the above.
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Grief is in two parts. The first is loss. The second is the remaking of life.
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Self-pity is never useful. It tends to distort like a fun-house mirror.
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Reader, you forget that economics precedes religion worship grew out of eating, not the other way around.
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We flashed our feathers when the feathers were fit to be flashed, and now, in drearier days, many stay indoors.
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