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It is hard to hold on to friendships when people move away to another state or to another world.
Anne Roiphe
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Anne Roiphe
Age: 88
Born: 1935
Born: December 25
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I would prefer you not to say, That was the most terribly written piece I've ever read. That would hurt me. But you don't think I'm the best person in the world? Well, alright.
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