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Decay is quiet but ghastly, explosion is dramatic and dreadful. There's not much to choose between the two of them in reality, and most of our lives have sufficient of both.
Anne Roiphe
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Anne Roiphe
Age: 88
Born: 1935
Born: December 25
Essayist
Film Writer
Journalist
Novelist
Writer
New York City
New York
Quiet
Choose
Ghastly
Lives
Explosion
Reality
Dreadful
Two
Explosions
Much
Decay
Dramatic
Sufficient
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We flashed our feathers when the feathers were fit to be flashed, and now, in drearier days, many stay indoors.
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I have two writer daughters, and a psychoanalyst daughter, and a lawyer daughter, and they wish we didn't write, I'm sure, but we write. If we were a painting family, we would paint.
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What other people think of me is not really my major concern in life. What other people think of what I write is another matter.
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A woman whose smile is open and whose expression is glad has a kind of beauty no matter what she wears.
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We also have to make sure our children know the history of women. Tell them the rotten truth: It wasn't always possible for women to become doctors or managers or insurance people. Let them be armed with a true picture of the way we want it to be.
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If I were planning to be stranded on a desert island, I wouldn't take Freud's books with me, because I've already read them all.
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Most of us don't have mothers who blazed a trail for us--at least, not all the way. Coming of age before or during the inception of the women's movement, whether as working parents or homemakers, whether married or divorced, our mothers faced conundrums--what should they be? how should they act?--that became our uncertainties.
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