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Radical self-care is what we've been longing for, desperate for, our entire lives-friendship with our own hearts.

Anne Lamott

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Anne Lamott
Age: 70
Born: 1954
Born: April 10
Novelist
Writer
San Francisco County
California
Compassion
Lives
Care
Desperate
Self
Longing
Heart
Radical
Entire
Hearts
Friendship

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