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Forgiveness means it finally becomes unimportant that you hit back. You're done. It doesn't necessarily mean that you want to have lunch with the person. If you keep hitting back, you stay trapped in the nightmare.

Anne Lamott

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Anne Lamott
Age: 70
Born: 1954
Born: April 10
Novelist
Writer
San Francisco County
California
Doesn
Lunch
Persons
Forgiveness
Back
Necessarily
Person
Finally
Done
Stay
Unimportant
Mean
Becomes
Trapped
Means
Hitting
Keep
Nightmare

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