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We've made hyper motherhood a measure of female success.

Anna Quindlen

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Anna Quindlen
Age: 72
Born: 1952
Born: July 8
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Journalist
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Philadelphia
Pennsylvania
Anna Marie Quindlen
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Motherhood
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Female
Success

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