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It is easy to keep secrets by being honest in an ironic tone of voice.
Andrew Solomon
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Andrew Solomon
Age: 61
Born: 1963
Born: October 30
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Antonin Artaud wrote on one of his drawings, Never real and always true, and that is how depression feels. You know that it is not real, that you are someone else, and yet you know that it is absolutely true.
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Labeling a child's mind as diseased-whether with autism, intellectual disabilities, or transgenderism-may reflect the discomfort that mind gives parents more than any discomfort it causes their child. Much gets corrected that might better have been left alone.
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Being in a marriage and having children is the greatest pleasure, but it is certainly not the easiest pleasure. It is not like eating ice cream.
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With children who have never said a word, parents tend to assume, for better or for worse, that there isn't any language there.
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I hated being depressed, but it was also in depression that I learned my own acreage, the full extent of my soul.
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I believe that organized religion is an ornament to the truth, and that aesthetics are part of its power.
Andrew Solomon
Sometimes, people end up thankful for what they mourned. You cannot achieve this state by seeking tragedy, but you can keep yourself open more to sorrow's richness than to unmediated despair. Tragedies with happy endings may be sentimental tripe, or they may be the true meaning of love.
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Kids with Down syndrome are, by and large, quite affectionate and relatively guileless, and frequently, the attachments to them grow and deepen. And the meaning that parents find in it grows and deepens.
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I found myself losing interest in almost everything, I didn't want to do any of the things I had previously wanted to do and I didn't know why. Everything there was to do seemed like too much work. The opposite of depression is not happiness, but vitality, and it was vitality that seemed to seep away from me in that moment.
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I have two nexuses of sadness about the Mormon Church. The first is the effect the Church's position on homosexuality has on Mormons.
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I did grow up in a household in which I felt that to be myself was to damage the people I loved.
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The opposite of depression is not happiness, but vitality, and it was vitality that seemed to seep out of me.
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I grew up feeling that to be gay was a tragedy. I didn't grow up thinking that it was morally wrong, but I grew up thinking that it would make me marginal, prevent me from having children, and quite possibly prevent me from having a meaningful long relationship. It seemed that this condition would leave me with a vastly reduced life.
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The thing that makes me really outraged, is the idea that the Mormon Church would presume to get involved in decisions that have little to do with Mormonism.
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When you banish the dragons you banish the heroes.
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Listen to the people who love you. Believe that they are worth living for even when you don't believe it.
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There is a great deal of sin that comes from homosexuals who believe their homosexuality is a sin.
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Some autistic people may emerge from their condition, but nobody knows when and why.
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We don't seek the painful experiences that hew our identities, but we seek our identities in the wake of painful experiences.
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Grief is depression in proportion to circumstance depression is grief out of proportion to circumstance. It is tumbleweed distress that thrives on thin air, growing despite its detachment from the nourishing earth. It can be described only in metaphor and allegory
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