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Ceremony is-really a protection, too, in times of emotional involvement, particularly at death. If we have a social formula to guide us and do not have to extemporize, we feel better able to handle life.

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Amy Vanderbilt
Age: 66 †
Born: 1908
Born: July 22
Died: 1974
Died: December 27
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Amy Osborne Vanderbilt
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