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I'm a proud strict mom and, you know, I'm really proud of the two daughters I've raised. And I'm especially proud of my relationship with them. We're very close. I think we're good friends.

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Amy Chua
Age: 62
Born: 1962
Born: October 26
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Amy L. Chua
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