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Being alone for a woman is probably much more scary than for a man. I'm all for getting over our fears by facing them head-on.

Alix Kates Shulman

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Alix Kates Shulman
Age: 92
Born: 1932
Born: August 17
Novelist
Writer
Cleveland
Ohio
Alone
Getting
Woman
Much
Facing
Men
Fears
Scary
Probably
Head

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The world is abundant with food for us, and with everything we need, if only we just open our eyes. There's so much food that gets thrown out or never harvested.
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My mirror image always had to be interpreted. And for that I sought my reflection in someone else's eyes.
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Sexism goes so deep that at first it's hard to see you think it's just reality.
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Within walking distance of any spot on Earth there's probably more than enough mystery to investigate in a lifetime.
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When I became a feminist, when the movement started in the late sixties, I started writing because I had something urgent to say. My first novel, Memoirs of an Ex-Prom Queen, is the product of that urgency.
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People often say to me now, Your work changed my life. I'm sure that's an exaggeration, but they say it had a big effect on them and enabled them to change. I'm not sure I believe that a book will cause someone to change.
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For many decades my relations with my parents constituted unfinished business. I had dealt with them through sheer avoidance and guilt.
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Usually, ordinary histories don't get the emotional feel of a period. That's what a novel can do.
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I did not intend to be a writer. I first wanted to be a lawyer, like my father. Then I got bit by the bug of philosophy and wanted to be a philosophy professor. I went to graduate school and quickly discovered it was impossible for a woman in those days - this was the early fifties - to be a philosopher, so I gave that up.
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Ever since Freud, being alone has been considered something of a psychological failure. The point, according to Freudian theory, is to be able to love and connect. But I don't believe that at all. I think that being alone and being coupled and being in a group are all natural states in which people can thrive.
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Fiction is ideally suited to re-creating the important emotional aspects of history.
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I am not a psychological novelist, and I try very hard not to allow the reader to see the plight or circumstances of the characters as individual psychological plights. That's my preference still, a lot of people do read my novels as psychological studies, and they're right to read them that way too, if that's what they mean to them.
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In my books, my idea is always to explore social context and social forces.
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When you witness the end of a life up close day by day, you begin to understand time and mortality in profound ways. You see time's relativity, death's necessity.
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For two years I watched my parents' lives wind to a close. This made me aware of old age as a one stage, the final one, of a long journey.
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Solitude offers a lot that being coupled or being in a group does not. It helps us learn what we are capable of.
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There is still nothing like equality for women in jobs, in family. There's just an awareness that inequality is not acceptable.
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