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You get into the habit of being angry and hurt by life, and then when something good happens you can't accept it because it doesn't fit the pattern.

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Alison Lurie
Age: 94 †
Born: 1926
Born: September 3
Died: 2020
Died: December 3
Essayist
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Chicago
Illinois
Alison Stewart Lurie
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