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We don't wife our husbands and we don't child our parents.

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Alison Gopnik
Age: 69
Born: 1955
Born: June 16
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We don't measure the quality of our other relationships by how well the other person turns out, for instance whether my husband is a better person after 10 years than he was when I first met him.
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The brain is highly structured, but it is also extremely flexible. It's not a blank slate, but it isn't written in stone, either.
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One of the most distinctive evolutionary features of human beings is our unusually long, protected childhood.
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The youngest children have a great capacity for empathy and altruism. There's a recent study that shows even 14-month-olds will climb across a bunch of cushions and go across a room to give you a pen if you drop one.
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Because we imagine, we can have invention and technology. It's actually play, not necessity, that is the mother of invention.
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Animals are certainly more sophisticated than we used to think. And we shouldn't lump together animals as a group. Crows and chimps and dogs are all highly intelligent in very different ways.
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Being a grandmother is a wonderful thing, so my advice is skip the children. Go straight to the grandchildren.
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