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Regression to the stage of early infancy is not a suitable method in and of itself. Such a regression can only be effective if it happens in the natural course of therapy and if the client is able to maintain adult consciousness at the same time.

Alice Miller

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Alice Miller
Age: 87 †
Born: 1923
Born: January 12
Died: 2010
Died: April 14
Painter
Psychologist
Sociologist
Writer
Piotrkow Trybunalski
Able
Adults
Infancy
Time
Early
Suitable
Consciousness
Clients
Stage
Therapy
Courses
Adult
Course
Maintain
Regression
Natural
Effective
Client
Happens
Method
Comeback

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