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Not to fear a person with power--to profess, instead, one's love--is to deny that that person has power.

Alexander Lowen

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Alexander Lowen
Age: 97 †
Born: 1910
Born: December 23
Died: 2008
Died: October 28
Psychotherapist
New York City
New York
Fear
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Persons
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Love
Profess
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