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A person does not choose his or her fate he or she only fulfills it. We are bound by our fate as long as we accept the values that determine it.

Alexander Lowen

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Alexander Lowen
Age: 97 †
Born: 1910
Born: December 23
Died: 2008
Died: October 28
Psychotherapist
New York City
New York
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