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How generous was it to offer gifts to people one knew would never accept them?
Alain de Botton
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Alain de Botton
Age: 55
Born: 1969
Born: December 20
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City of Zurich
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Don't despair: despair suggests you are in total control and know what is coming. You don't - surrender to events with hope.
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