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There's a gift in your lap and it's beautifully wrapped and it's not your birthday. You feel wonderful, you feel like somebody knows you're alive, you feel fear because it could be a bomb, because you think you're that important.

Aimee Bender

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Aimee Bender
Age: 55
Born: 1969
Born: June 28
Novelist
Writer
the United States of America
Important
Birthday
Think
Gift
Thinking
Somebody
Like
Alive
Lap
Wonderful
Beautifully
Fear
Wrapped
Feel
Bomb
Feels
Bombs

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